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October 24, 2013

The 4 Worst Kinds of Girlfriends


If life were a movie would you be Stu’s (from “The Hangover”) crazy and overbearing girlfriend Melissa? You know the girlfriend from hell who is dating the loveable main character before inevitably getting dumped for the amazing girl of his dreams?

You think – of course not! Ok so maybe every guy you have ever dated has dumped you – they were all jerks! It’s their loss!

Hate to be the bearer of bad news, but if you are constantly getting dumped – it might be time to self examine and reflect on what you might be doing to scare guys away. If you are any of the types of girlfriends below, it might be time to change tactics.

Here are the four worst kinds of girlfriends that make guys RUN – not walk – away.

1. The Party Girl

Do you have scabs on your knees from falling down drunk every weekend? Yes we know girls just want to have fun – and so do guys – but being a hot mess is never cute. There is such a thing as going overboard and most men will not pursue a serious relationship with a girl who does not know when to say when. If you are known to always get sloppy drunk – don’t expect any worthwhile guy to take you or your relationship seriously.

2. The Green Eyed Monster aka Jealous Nagger

Do you check your man’s Facebook every hour on the hour patrolling it for any females? Do you start a fight if he even glances at another woman? Are the only women you allow him to speak to family members? Ok… I’m going to need you to tone down the crazy. This is one of the fastest ways to turn a guy off. No guy wants someone who is constantly nagging and accusing them of cheating. The only thing this does is cause you unnecessary stress and alienate him. If you have a great guy who treats you well and chooses to be with you – 9 times out of 10 – he really likes you! Why else would he waste his time (and most likely money) on you? And if for some reason he doesn’t really want to be with you – do you think “patrolling” him and nagging him will make things better? Quite the opposite – you would only be cementing the fact it’s time for him to hit the road.

3. Marriage Obsessed

Are you the girl that already has your wedding date, kids’ names, and ring design picked out by the third date? Well, you might as well have a ‘RUN’ sign taped to your forehead. Like it or not, commitment is still a scary thing for most men. If you pressure a man for more than he is ready to give, that is the fastest and surest way for you to send him running for the hills.

4. Self Obsessed/ Selfish

Are you the type of girl who has never heard of the word compromise? If you don’t get your way, you will legit throw a 5-year-old temper tantrum and not even feel guilty or embarrassed about it. Your guy took you out to your favorite restaurant and bought you a new diamond necklace for your birthday – but he didn’t get you the matching bracelet. OMG he should’ve known you can NOT wear the necklace without the bracelet! He just doesn’t care! Okay seriously… can I slap you? What was the last thing that you did for him? Healthy relationships must be 50/50. If all you do is take from the relationship and never give – your guy is sooner or later going to get fed up and find someone who does appreciate him.

Can you think of other horrible girlfriends?? Post them on the Nouveau Dating Facebook page.

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Keisha Jeffries

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