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Dating Tips & Relationship Advice


December 28, 2012


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All though we are all turned on by different things, some seductions are undeniably irresistible. The following are dos and don’ts of enticing that other person:

The Build Up


Send flirty and forward text messages that keep you on their mind all day, eagerly anticipating your date later on. For example, when they ask what you’re up to, tell them you’re playing with yourself and thinking of them.

Cleverly compliment them. Turning a playful joke into a comment about their natural sex appeal adds to the ecstasy pooling between you two. Try teasing him about how he could really come in handy on laundry day, thanks to his washboard abs.


Be too touchy. You want to draw them in with everything but your touch. Make them want more every step of the way by only giving them a taste at a time. Nudge them with your shoulder, or graze their thigh with your hand – if the mood is right, inch it up closer, little by little, and stop just before that spot – they’ll go weak with desire. Give only little tastes of this exuberant feeling – you want to create hype for what you’re going to deliver later.

Show Skin


Wear the right clothes. Hint at what’s under there, but don’t show it all. Flash a little cleavage, bare a shoulder, or wear a short skirt – not all three.


Reveal everything up front. When reaching that crucial moment, the ultra skimpy lingerie you’ll uncover will make his dreams come true – literally.

Use Body Movement


Emphasize certain sexy areas of your body. With your fingertips casually rub your ear lobe, sensually stretch your neck, or keep tugging at your belt and smoothing out the end of your short skirt. You can try running your hands through your hair too sometimes. It’s a fun and subtle way to remind them of your body and keep excitement rolling.

Lick your lips with the tip of your tongue, or gently bite your lower lip. This draws attention to your mouth, and it’s a fiery way to be daintily seductive.


Be overly bold. Make sure that all your actions aren’t blatantly obvious. It’s kind of like leaving a trail of clues for the other person to chase, and then solving that mystery with a better version than they could’ve ever imagined. For instance, save the make-out session for a foreplay indulgence.

The most important thing to keep in mind in seduction is to want that person as much as you want to be desired- if that feeling comes through, then the rest will fall into place. With these tips, that steamy encounter will be even more passionate.

About the Author

Samantha Daniel
Samantha Daniel is a Colorado native, attending Metro State University majoring in technical communication, with emphases in writing and editing. Her passion for relationships, dating, and romance unfolds in her articles.

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