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May 20, 2013

The Sexiest Thing About You


A lot of media content undermines women. It’s hard to feel secure about yourself after reading “97 Things You Didn’t Even Know Men Were Judging You For.” The one thing that is the most difficult to retain after reading articles like that is the sexiest quality you could ever possess: self-confidence.

Men DO Make Passes at Girls Who Wear Glasses

No one is perfect and with all of the negative feedback, it’s easy to start believing that your imperfect physical features might be turning people off. But that’s the wrong attitude! If you keep telling yourself that you look like a dingus in your new glasses, you will definitely act like a dingus, thereby guaranteeing that other people notice your insecurity. Insecurity is not attractive. Change your perception of yourself and other people will take a shine to your self-affirming, positive outlook.

My Mom Said They Framed My Face in a Charming Way

It doesn’t matter what trait you’re talking about, you should listen to your mom. Moms think that we’re perfect just the way we are and that anyone would be lucky to have us. If you accept this attitude yourself, you will exude unshakable self-confidence. Being comfortable in your own skin is the best way to show off your most attractive self. Easier said than done, but there’s one quick way to fake it til you make it.

If You Act Sexy, You Are Sexy

Always remember, there is someone out there who will be all about whatever little appearance-related quirk makes you self-conscious. If you don’t believe me, listen to the OkCupid dating blog. By analyzing data from all of its users, the blog concluded that women with unique, unconventional physical traits receive highly-polarized responses from men (ie, some men were strongly attracted to their pointy noses, wide-set eyes or thick glasses but others were put off). Those girls, the ones that men disagree on, get pursued more than girls who are conventionally cute. If you’ve got a distinctive look, there will be a whole subset of people who are wildly excited about it.

The Best Advice You Aren’t Expecting

I can’t say it any better than the blog: “Take whatever you think some guys don’t like—and play it up…Browsing OkCupid, I see so many photos that are clearly designed to minimize some supposedly unattractive trait—the close-cropped picture of a person who’s probably overweight is the classic example. We now have mathematical evidence that minimizing your ‘flaws’ is the opposite of what you should do. If you’re a little chubby, play it up. If you have a big nose, play it up. If you have a weird snaggletooth, play it up…the ones who do like it will be all the more excited.”

Read the whole blog entry here.

About the Author

Most Brave Girl
MostBraveGirl is the Executive Editor for Nouveau Dating and Love is Everywhere. She is a search and destroy robot for anyone acting stupid while trying to get laid. Ask for her help if you are one of those people.

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