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April 14, 2011

Is he into you?

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Written by: Anna Karimo
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He doesn't call

Is he into you? Will you make the first move? or Should you wait it out? Here are some indication that a man wants you.

First date

You had a fabulous time. You think he is into you but he didn’t call you. He was so easy to talk to that you felt like you had known him for years. He seemed to have your same tastes in food and movies. You told your best friend that you may have found your Mr. Right, and described how well you got along and are looking forward to the next date . The next day passes and no phone call. After a week, you stop checking voice mail, email or making excuses for him and accept that he’s not going to call you.

He didn’t call?

Why doesn’t he call? How do you handle the rejection? You could head for the ice cream shop and drown your sorrows in scoops of rich ice cream with cookies and sprinkles on top. Or hang around the house in an old bathrobe and cry is another way to deal with your hurt feelings.

Drinking alcohol, driving too fast or getting angry and trash talking about him are other destructive ways to cope with your sadness. You might act that way in private or with friends, but don’t publicize your anger toward him because eventually you might run into him again.

If you work in the same company, or even within the same industry, chances are you’ll see him again. If you met him through friends, then you can count on landing in the same social setting before too long.

You don’t want him if he’s not into you

How you handle yourself in that situation is going to be seen by others, so you need to think it over before it happens to avoid making a fool of yourself over a guy who doesn’t deserve your attention.

Maybe you’ve imagined how you might tell him off – but is that really what you should do? First of all, if he didn’t care enough about you to call after the date as he said he would, then he simply doesn’t care what you think.

Telling him how you feel won’t change him because he has no interest in you. If you do that, you are the one who looks foolish in front of friends or co-workers. Or you might be fantasizing about showing him what he missed by parading a new date in front of the other guy.

Let it go and get a guy who is into you

The reality check is, he won’t care, and your new guy won’t like being used to try to stir up jealousy in another man. You lose on both counts. The longer you obsess about him, the more you build up something that’s more than what it ever was.

You can analyze your dating conversation a thousand ways so that you eventually hear something that wasn’t said and believe something that never happened. That’s the power of obsession – it turns reality into fantasy that you begin to believe.

Don’t resort to high school dating tricks like sending him anonymous cards that are sweet or sarcastic. And definitely don’t drive by his house at all hours to see who he’s with. You can’t win him over by stalking him. Just be glad that he realized you two weren’t right for each other early on, rather than after dating for a while, and move on to find the man who will treasure you and realize what a gem he has.

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About the Author

Anna Karimo
Anna Karimo is the founder and CEO of Nouveau Dating. She is an international leading Dating Expert who has invented dozens of amazing products in the dating and relationship field.

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