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October 15, 2013

How to Write a Love Letter That Will Make Her Melt


Guest Post by Daniel Brown

One of the best ways to impress a woman is to go back to tradition. In the past, men wooed a woman with plenty of romance before they got together. These days many men see the art of wooing as a quick text and a drink down the local pub (sometimes even with their mates). Romance is the key to a woman’s heart. The best way to let her know exactly how you feel is to write her a romantic, whimsical, vintage-style love letter.

If describing your feelings isn’t your strong suit, use the tips below to get yourself started. As our 30-day project nears its end, writing a love letter is definitely one of the best skills you will take away with you.

Why Write One?
As technology has advanced, the art of letter writing has almost completely vanished. Once popular amongst soldiers who spent months away at a time, love letters now seem generally redundant. And what a shame! Nothing can ever truly replace the love letter in terms of romance and treasured memories. They’re something that can be kept forever. Text messages and emails just can’t compare.

You don’t have to be a long way from your sweetheart to write her a love letter. Even if you spend every single day with her, a love letter is a great way to remind her just how much you care. Remember, you can never tell a woman too many times just how much you care about her. They love knowing how you feel and tender, constant reassurance is greatly appreciated.

How to Make Her Swoon
In theory, writing a love letter seems like a great idea. In reality, it’s can be really hard for a man to express how he feels. Unless you write for a living, getting your emotions down on paper can be a nightmare. Here’s how to write a love letter that will melt her heart:

  • Tip #1: Make Your Point Early
    Why are you writing the letter? Let your loved one know what prompted you to write. If you don’t get to the point early, she might think that it’s a break-up letter, which is one of the main reasons men write letters to their partners these days. You need to say how much you love her right off the bat. You can point out that you don’t tell her often enough how much you love her (it’s never often enough) and that you hope she never forgets it.
  • Tip #2: Relive a Romantic Memory
    Try to recall one of your most romantic experiences together. She’ll love knowing that you think about those memories too and that romance with her means so much to you. Women often assume men don’t appreciate the romantic time spent together. Recalling these memories will help her to see just how significant your relationship is to you.
  • Tip #3: Tell Her Why
    Why do you love her? The answer should be pretty simple and inherently romantic. If you struggle to find reasons why you love your sweetheart, it could be a huge warning sign that the relationship isn’t right. Try writing a list separately before you start the formal love letter so that you can pick the best things from the list and go into detail. It will also help if you end this section by explaining how your life has drastically changed for the better since meeting her.

These are just three tips to help you to express your love. Why not give it a go right now? The more you practice, the easier it gets. Why wouldn’t you try to make her feel like the luckiest girl in the world?

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