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May 8, 2013

Making the Most of Makeup Sex


Did you just get into a blowout fight with your partner? Once everyone has cooled off, you know where it’s headed. The Bedroom and… you’re probably about to have make up sex, which will be some of the best sex of your life.  Let’s take a look at the reasons why this sex is just so damn hot and steamy after a fight:

Emotions run haywire when you get into a vicious fight with your loved one.  You question everything and lose your sense of balance.  Needless to say, when you finally stop fighting, you’re left with a whole heap of frustrated energy.  You won’t know it then, but you’re about to unleash all of that rage in an amazing sexual adventure.

Once too many words have been said in a short amount of time, they completely lose their effectiveness.  You might want to make up with your partner using words, but they simply do not suffice.  Guess what does?  Great sex, that’s what.  Nothing brings you back together quicker than a good romp in between the sheets.

It’s New Again
Just minutes earlier, you and your partner were probably hurling insults at each other.  The last thing on your mind was having sex.  Fast forward an hour and you’re both spooning in bed wondering what that fight was about exactly.  When you have a serious fight with your partner, the thought crosses your mind that maybe you shouldn’t be together.  Once you find yourselves together again, it all feels like a bad dream.  Things become fresh and new again.

It’s Completely Unexpected
Although you’ve heard about makeup sex, you never think it’s going to happen when you’re mid-fight with your partner.  Even right after the fight, the last thing on your mind is getting intimate.  It’s when you lay down your head to bed and feel the closeness of your partner that your sexual organs start tickling.  It’s a very primal thing, and that’s why it’s so good.

I am not condoning fighting with your partner to have great sex.  You can have great sex without fighting too.  That should be your goal.  It’s not the end of the world if you have a terrible fight, but you should think about why it happened.  Don’t just forget it because the sex was good after.  Healthy sex happens in healthy relationships, but it can’t make a relationship healthy. Just remember, make up sex is best when served hot, right after a steamy argument but don’t make a habit of it, otherwise it just gets cold.

About the Author

Chase Greene
is a freelance journalist based in Denver. In 2012, he biked, camped, and hitchhiked his way from Massachusetts to Colorado with his girlfriend. Now he shares relationship advice, from the male point of view, in the hopes of improving relationships everywhere!

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