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August 14, 2011

The Woman You Want?

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Written by: Anna Karimo
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What kind of woman you want?

Men like to help or save women in order to get affection from her, especially if she is physically desirable to him. Just as woman wants a man who is in control of his life, you don’t need a woman whose life is a disaster. If she has bad habits, addictions, or a history of decisions that turn out to make her life worse, pass her by.

What kind of woman you don’t want to date?

You might like to feel like a hero for a woman you desire, but you don’t need to be necessary for her survival in the everyday world. If she has a lot of problems before you met her, be cautious with what you can help with and what can be helped only by professionals. As soon as you learn about the kind of problems, be nice to her, but don’t think you can cure her addiction by yourself or teach her how to handle her problems. That’s what counselors are for. Trying to take on that role in a romantic relationship just won’t work. So tell her that you wont start relationship until she agrees to seek help and then see if she will. If you’re attracted to a woman who just doesn’t have her life together, you need to date someone else. Later, when she decides on her own to straighten out her life, you might date her.

You can’t just come in and fix everything for her that’s her job as an adult. Taking over that job will make her angry with you, no matter how much better your solutions are. Also, constantly having to rescue a woman gets old really quick, so don’t pick that relationship in the first place and you have a better chance of staying together.

Look for a healthy woman to date

A woman you want to date will be healthy physically, mentally, emotionally and caring. That means that she should be able to take care of herself and she won’t be desperate for a man to come bail her out. There are still plenty of things you can show your masculinity with her life, but she can love you for you and not for seeking you saving you out of her disasters.

Date woman who has self worth

A healthy woman won’t use you for security, because she already has her own. She’ll still want to be with you, but because she likes you, not just what you can do for her. And she won’t drop you because someone better comes along she’ll like you for yourself. She’ll be much less likely to be clingy and jealous as well. It is so much more fun to be with a person who has self worth.

Hold out for a woman who has her life together. If she is healthy physically, mentally, emotionally, and caring, you’ll be able to tell. She’ll be happy, calm, and self-aware. She won’t have to escape reality with drugs or alcohol, or dull the pain in her life with self-destructive behavior.

She won’t make excuses for dumb decisions and insist that she has no choice but to be a victim. She won’t have drama cluttering up her life which means that she’ll have room for a healthy, happy relationship with you.

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About the Author

Anna Karimo
Anna Karimo is the founder and CEO of Nouveau Dating. She is an international leading Dating Expert who has invented dozens of amazing products in the dating and relationship field.

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